Have you ever faced a situation when one of your friends became successful?
You were happy for him/her, but you got discouraged, felt sad, and also got demotivated.
Even at that time, you doubted yourself.
And you questioned yourself –
WHY NOT ME?
It happens when someone close to us achieves his/her goals, and you wonder if it will happen to me or not?
Have you ever wondered why you got that feeling of disappointment?
What was the main reason behind your discouragement and getting demotivated?
The fastest way to feel unhappy,
It is a COMPARISON.
Yes, when we see our close one’s getting ahead in their lives. We also want to be successful.
Its human nature.
But because of that, you can’t forget our achievements, the purpose of life, and goals.
Everyone has their dreams and aspirations.
You should never forget that for what purpose and goals you are working hard.
And for that, you shouldn’t blame our life.
But then what to do?
“You’re close to something great. Don’t let other people’s progress discourage you.”
STAND FOR YOURSELF –
Don’t be a wanderer, be focused on your dreams and ambitions. Do what you want rather than thinking about what others are doing. Always believe in your abilities and skills. Keep your goal in your mind and give your best shot.
BE BRAVE OF YOU –
Whatever you are doing, give your best, and be committed to it. Be brave enough to follow the path you want. Never let the question “What If?” scare you. Just be a lionhearted soldier who knows what he wants to achieve.
MONITOR YOUR PROGRESS –
It is very crucial to track your progress as it motivates you and boosts your confidence. Be Always ready with your next day stratagem, as it takes planning to collocate the chaos of your mind. Follow a routine of matching the standards with the actual results. Keeping track of your gain ground on an everyday basis. Making plans, monitoring your results will take you one step ahead to reach out to your goals.
CELEBRATE YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS-
Make time to celebrate your accomplishments, no matter big or small. You did your best and will reach your desired destination soon. But don’t forget to whoop it up. It will encourage you and make you assertive towards your aspiration.
MAKE YOUR LONG TERM GOALS-
An aim without a plan is only a wish. In the same way, only setting short term goals will not solve the purpose as it may stump you. Long term goals make you consistent towards your targets. In case if you are unable to achieve your short term objectives but then also you can redraft it according to your long term objectives.
For Example –
Long term goal: If you’re trying to lose weight, then one of your short term goals will be not to eat fried food often.
Likewise, If you are a student preparing for a competitive exam then, you have to limit your outing with friends.
You have to be calm and have a positive attitude while waiting for the desired results. It is crucial to be patient as supreme things take time to happen. No matter how dark the forest is, the sun will surely show you the way. Remember, if you can have patience, you will surely reach your wisdom.
LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES-
It is a very integral step as you should always learn from your mistakes. Repeating mistakes will land you nowhere. Firstly, analyze each step and check out for loopholes. Then, start planning alternatives regarding all the mistakes. At last, take corrective action.
Imagine life as a swing.– Palak Gupta
It will show you ups and downs.
But it also provides you chances to grow,
The more you kick back harder,
The more unstoppable you will be 🙂
NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF-
Each person is unique in his/her ability or skills. Likewise, all of them are having a set of goals and aspirations which they want to achieve. So, never compare yourself with anyone, else it will just perplex you.
If you want someone to compare yourself with, then compare your current you with your previous you. Yes, Everyday life gives you a chance to become better than yesterday.
GET OUT OF YOUR SNAP ZONE-
Push yourself because no one else is going to do it for you. If your target demands something which is not in your comfort, you should keep trying to achieve your aspired ends. Everything that you tried and did in your life once was out of your comfort zone. If you want to grow and become stronger, you’re just one step outside your comfort zone.
Every new thing starts with positivity. Getting a new idea to accomplish your target involves positivity. It is essential to stay positive not only from outside but also from inside. Inner peace and positivity will give a boost to your confidence and help you work more effectively and efficiently. Choose to be optimistic in your approach as it will generate positive thoughts. The positive thoughts will give you a sense of achievement that will propagate the desired results.
If you can’t find sunshine then, be the sunshine of your life 🙂
KEEP STRIVING –
Trying, again and again, is the key to success. Like an ant who always keeps on trying and never quits.
So, Keep striving and be charged towards your goal.
THINK AND ASK YOURSELF –
Now, what do I need to do?
What do I need to adjust?
“Paint your Rainbow so alluring that you don’t have to worry about thunderstorms.”– Palak Gupta
It’s so important to keep your vibrations high and focus on your ultimate goal.
Stay positive and take the right actions towards your goal.
You have to be clear, keep trying until you get a big yes.
Now if you think about your close one’s success, then say it to yourself –
Yes, success is on its way,
And It’s my turn soon!